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4 Strategies to Give Effective Feedback to a Difficult Person

Vinita
Better Programming
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8 min readNov 5, 2023

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Do you have smart, talented, high potential or high performers on your team? Those who have a knack for solving complex problems and those you always seem to rely on when it comes to getting things done.

Their brilliance may be admired by many, but what if they only shine when it comes to independently getting work done. What if your team finds it hard to communicate and collaborate with them which hurts their productivity and performance?

What if they:

  • Demean others when their ideas fall short.
  • Become defensive and take it personally when others disagree with them.
  • Set extremely high standards and expect others to meet them.
  • Express their dissatisfaction by shouting or displaying anger and frustration in their body language.
  • Establish their superiority by interrupting others and not letting them speak.
  • Expect differential treatment and do not follow good practices in the team.

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Vinita
Vinita

Written by Vinita

Author: Books on Mindset, Imposter Syndrome. Scaling products → Scaling thinking (⊙_⊙) Former AVP Engineering, Swiggy. I write about work, progress and success.

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